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Maintenance after divorce: when is it owed?

After a divorce, the principle of self-responsibility generally applies: everyone provides for themselves. Nevertheless, post-marital maintenance can be owed if you cannot (fully) provide for yourself for certain reasons. The hurdles are higher than for separation maintenance, though.

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Post-marital maintenance requires a statutory maintenance ground (§§ 1569 ff. BGB): for example care of joint children, age, illness or infirmity, unemployment or education. Without such a ground, the principle of self-responsibility applies.
The maintenance can be limited in time or reduced in amount (time limit or reduction). Your own income is offset.

What you should do now

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    1. Check the ground

    Is one of the maintenance grounds present (child care, age, illness, unemployment, education)?

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    2. Determine need and income

    Compare the incomes of both sides; that is the basis of the calculation.

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    3. Assert the claim

    Assert the claim in writing and, if necessary, demand information about the other's income.

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    4. Get advice

    Post-marital maintenance is complex (time limits, offsetting). Get legal advice (advisory or procedural cost aid where applicable).

Frequently asked questions

Am I entitled to maintenance after the divorce?

Only if a statutory maintenance ground is present (e.g. care of joint children, age, illness, unemployment through no fault of your own; §§ 1569 ff. BGB). Otherwise the principle of self-responsibility applies: after the divorce, everyone generally provides for themselves.

How long is post-marital maintenance paid?

That depends on the individual case. The maintenance can be limited in time and reduced in amount, especially if there are no (longer) marriage-related disadvantages. Your own income is offset. The exact assessment belongs in a legal review.

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General information for self-help, not legal advice (RDG). In case of a high loss or uncertainty: contact a consumer advice center or a lawyer.