Which name after the wedding? Your options

At marriage the question of names comes up: a common family name, a double name, or does each keep their name? The law leaves the choice to you. Here is an overview of the options.

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You can choose a common married name, the birth name of one partner. Whoever does not make their name the married name can place their previous name before or after it as an accompanying name (double name). But you can also both keep your previous names (§ 1355 BGB).

Choosing a name is voluntary; without a determination, each keeps their previous name. You submit the declaration at the registry office; it also affects later documents and, where applicable, the children's name.

What you should do now

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1. Weigh the options
A common married name, an accompanying/double name, or both keep your names?
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2. Declare at the registry office
The name determination is made at the registry office (often at the marriage itself).
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3. Think of the children
The married name influences which name common children can receive.
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4. Update documents
After choosing a name, update your ID card, passport, and contracts.

Frequently asked questions

Do we have to have a common name after marriage?

No. You can choose a common married name (the birth name of one partner) but do not have to. Without a determination, each keeps their previous name. Whoever does not adopt the married name can additionally use their name as an accompanying/double name (§ 1355 BGB).

Can I still change my name later?

A later determination or change of the married name is possible in certain cases, for example if no choice was initially made. After a divorce, you can also readopt your birth name or a name you previously used. The declarations go through the registry office.

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