Maintenance for adult children: who pays what?
At 18, several things change with maintenance: for an adult child in training or studying, both parents are liable pro rata according to their income. At the same time, the child's own income is credited. Here are the key rules.
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What you should do now
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1. Determine the need
Determine the need according to the Duesseldorf Table (adult children, and students with their own need rate if living in their own place).
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2. Income of both parents
Both parents are liable pro rata. If necessary, obtain information about the other parent's income.
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3. Credit own income
Credit the child's training allowance or BAfoeG (after deductions) against the need.
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4. Assert it
Demand the maintenance in writing. In a dispute, advice centers or legal advice can help (legal aid may be available).
Frequently asked questions
Do both parents have to pay for an adult child?
Yes. From the age of majority, both parents are generally liable pro rata according to their income for cash maintenance, unlike with a minor child, where the caring parent provides their share through the care.
Is the child's income credited?
Yes, in full or in part. A training allowance (after deducting training-related extra needs) and BAfoeG reduce the maintenance need. As long as the child pursues their initial training with determination, the maintenance entitlement generally remains in place, however.
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General information for self-help, not legal advice (RDG). In case of a high loss or uncertainty: contact a consumer advice center or a lawyer.