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Your child spent money in a game? You often get it back

Suddenly there are high amounts for in-app purchases or in-game currency on the bill, made by your child? Contracts that minors conclude without their parents' consent are generally provisionally invalid. You can refuse consent.

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Demand a refund

Your chances of getting your money back

Children under 7 are legally incapable; between 7 and 17 they have only limited legal capacity (§§ 104 ff. BGB). Without the parents' consent the purchase is provisionally invalid; if you refuse consent, it is void and the money must be repaid.
The 'pocket money paragraph' exception (§ 110 BGB) applies only if the child pays with its own means made freely available to it; for high in-app purchases via the parents' account, generally not.

What you should do now

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    1. Document the purchases

    List the affected purchases, amounts and dates and record that your minor child made them.

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    2. Refuse consent

    Inform the provider/platform (app store, game provider) in writing that you as the person with parental authority refuse consent and demand a refund.

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    3. Apply for a refund

    Additionally use the app stores' refund functions; many refund unintended purchases by children.

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    4. Safeguard for the future

    Set up parental controls, purchase confirmation by password and, if necessary, a third-party provider block.

Frequently asked questions

Do I have to pay for my child's in-app purchases?

Often not. Contracts that minors conclude without their parents' consent are provisionally invalid (§§ 104 ff. BGB). If you as the person with parental authority refuse consent, the purchase is void and the money must be repaid. The pocket money paragraph generally does not apply to high amounts via the parents' account.

How do I get the money back?

Turn to the app store/game provider, refuse consent in writing and apply for a refund. Many platforms refund unintended purchases by children. If necessary, you can dispute the payment via the chosen payment method.

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General information for self-help, not legal advice (RDG). In case of a high loss or uncertainty: contact a consumer advice center or a lawyer.